Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Facts & Business Of Online Dating.....

Online dating has consistently been on the rise since the internet first began. Many people think about online dating as a chance to meet people and chat with them online from the comfort of their own home. It beats going out on blind dates that your friends have set up, or going to social functions like singles dances, etc. Those options just put single people in the spotlight, which is exactly where they do not want to be. There's more and more single people out there everyday. Whether you are single, divorced/single or widow (er) single.

Online dating websites require you to become a member by paying a fee that is usually for a week or a month and you may cancel your membership at any time. After the membership is paid, the next step is to create a member profile. The profile usually consists of telling others who you are, where you are from, hobbies, interests and what type of man or woman you are looking for.

The next section asks you to tell people exactly why you joined the site whether it's just to meet new people, make new friends, dating, or looking for someone for a long term relationship. After that section is completed, depending on which online dating website you select, the profile is different. However, at the end you are required to put a photo of yourself and create an email account. The purpose of the email account is to receive messages from interested people who saw your profile. You too can search the profiles and read various groups of profiles according to age ranges, hobbies, or where they live.

Dating online brings both rewards and obstacles. We have spent a good amount of time talking on the rewards; now lets go through the hurdles of online dating. Internet dating brings with it great freedom. Freedoms like expressing your thoughts whenever and however you choose in chat rooms, message boards, etc. is an interwoven fabric of the Internet. Unfortunately, as you may have experience or easily predicted, folks take advantage of these freedoms like posing as someone there not or placing misleading photos. People like these see online dating as a way to fool others. Then there are cases where some singles are so insecure that they dilute their profiles to depict a sort of fantasize version of themselves instead of the real.

As you can see, a profile is not always an accurate depiction of a person. Innocent enough, most singles do not even take the time to really fill out a profile that gives others a good idea of who a particular person is. There are plenty of good cases that singles mention finding that perfect partner. Online dating has created a lot of marriages. Meeting folks online can be a great adventure if you do not take the experience personal.

Some of the better websites like eHarmony.com actually give their members a series of short survey like tests that help the website as well as the individual assess what type of person they are looking for. The results of the tests are posted on your profile giving other members the chance to read them to see if they are a potential match for you.

1 comment:

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